Tips to Getting Better Sleep

It’s the end of a busy day, your mind is racing from all the things you have done, and all that needs to be done in the morning. How are you going to get some quality sleep? How can you relax your mind for the next seven or eight hours? Here are some tips to getting better sleep.

At the American Institute of Stress (AIS), they have a typical answer to explain how to relax. While everyone may have different ways of showing their stress, there is one “Super Stress Buster” that AIS recommends as a useful relaxation technique for everyone, even kids!

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Simply Breathing

Would you like to guess what that is? BREATHING! Did you guess the right answer?

Practicing the technique of “simply breathing” is free and it can be practiced anywhere. The essence of relaxation is – “Focused Breathing”. Deep breathing increases the supply of oxygen to your brain and stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system. This, in turn, promotes a state of calmness in your body according to AIS.

One American Institute of Stress Certified Technique, is Quieting Response

This utilizes “visualization” and “deep breathing”. They claim it only takes 6 seconds!

#1 “Smile Inwardly” using your eyes and your mouth.

#2 Release the tension in your shoulders.

#3 Inhale. Take a deep breath in and relax as you imagine warm air flowing from the soles of your feet, through your legs, up your body and lungs, clear to the top of your head. Relax.

#4 Exhale. Reverse your visualization. Imagine warm air traveling down from the top of your head, through your body to the soles of your feet.

#5 Repeat until you feel calm and relaxed.

Another American Institute of Stress Technique for Kids is – Teddy Bear Breathing.

  1.   Lie on your back.
  2.  Place one hand on your chest.
  3.  Place your favorite teddy bear on your belly button.
  4.  Close your eyes and relax your entire body.
  5.  Slowly breath in through your nose. The Teddy bear should slowly rise, and your chest should remain motionless. (Belly breathing)
  6.  Hold your breath and count to 3.
  7.  Slowly exhale.
  8.  Repeat until you feel calm and relaxed.

Visualization, Relaxation, and Breathing Exercises

Visualization, relaxation, and breathing exercises are all ways to slow down your body and brain. They help you lay aside the busyness of the day and relax for a good night’s sleep.

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The US Military Technique

According to Sharon Ackerman’s book titled “Relax and Win: Championship Performance”, to get a good night’s sleep you could follow the US Military Technique.

Those in the military need to sleep wherever they are, even amidst artillery fire.

Here are the steps to the military technique.


  • FOCUS on relaxing your muscles. Begin at the head, close your eyes, and relax your brow. Actively try not to move, and just “let go” of those muscles. This is a good start… just keep your eyes closed.
  • Next relax your mouth, cheeks, and jaw muscles. Let your entire head relax, all the while, keeping your eyes closed.
  • Work the relaxation technique to your shoulders. Let your shoulders and arms rest by your side. Some people find it works best to concentrate on one side at a time.
  • Exhale, relaxing your chest. You should be relaxed down to your belt.
  • Now it is time to concentrate on the Breathing aspect of the US Military Technique.


With your upper body relaxed, now focus on your breathing. Take big, slow breaths, and slowly exhale. Feel your breath as it enters and leaves your nostrils.

Clear Your Mind

Rid your mind of all negative thoughts as you focus on breathing… in and out, in and out. Focus on something serene: Clouds or floating on the water. Whatever increases your relaxed state of mind.

Relax the Rest of Your Body

 Relax your legs, feet, and toes, one side at a time. Allow them to fall into a comfortable position.

Focus on Something Simple

Now that you are relaxed and have a serene mindset, repeat a small, simple phrase over and over in your mind. Something like “time to sleep”, “time to sleep”, or “don’t think”, “don’t think”, repeat this over and over in your mind until your mind is as relaxed as the rest of your body.

Completely relax and focus your mind on one single thought to fall asleep quickly and get a better night’s sleep.

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Try quiet music. Many mothers sing lullabies to their children to put them to sleep. One charge allows you to enjoy 10 hours of music with this headband without disturbing your partner.

More Tips to Getting Better Sleep

The 4-7-8 Technique helps some people fall asleep quickly.

  • Purse your lips as you exhale.
  • Close your lips and silently inhale to the count of 4.
  • Hold your breath for 7 seconds.
  • Exhale to the count of 8.

Repeat until you are relaxed enough to sleep.

Try a Cup of Herbal Tea Before Bedtime

A great way to unwind is with a cup of Sleepytime Herbal Tea with chamomile, spearmint, and lemon grass.

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Try to Stay Awake.

Some true insomniacs find trying to fall asleep only makes them more anxious. Research shows that if you tell yourself to stay awake, sometimes you fall asleep faster. If you are stressed out by lack of sleep, this method may be helpful.

In Conclusion

Are there times when you can’t fall asleep? There are a variety of methods to help you fall asleep faster and get a better-quality sleep. Visualization and deep breathing, as the American Institute of Stress suggests, Teddy bear breathing, and the Military Technique. The 4-7-8 Technique is also an option. If all else fails, just tell yourself that you are not sleepy until you fall asleep.

Please Leave a Comment

What tips to getting better sleep do you have? Do you have a tip that never fails for you?

Sweet dreams.

Disclaimer: If you have any concerns or questions about your health, you should always consult with a physician or other healthcare professional. No content on this site should be substituted for direct medical advice from your doctor or another qualified healthcare practitioner. The information contained here is for informational purposes only. It is from my research and personal experience.

4 thoughts on “Tips to Getting Better Sleep”

  1. Hi Carolyn,

    Thanks for your helpful post, with tons of good tips for getting better sleep! I really like your visualization technique in which we breathe in and out the hot air through the imaginative holes in the feet! I will share this with my mom who is now struggling with her sleep.

    Thanks again,


    • Hi Grace, thanks for stopping by with a comment! Our breath can be used to slow down our heart rate to aid with sleep. A relaxed body, and taking big, slow breaths is a great way to get a good night’s sleep.

  2. Although a lot of folks take sleep lightly but its honestly one of the strongest therapy for good health after water. But not just sleeping, but getting quality sleep. I love the way you broke down how to get quality sleep. Especially for kids with the use of teddy bear. A friendly device that can easily help one monitor our level of breathing. Thanks a lot for this 

    • Hi  and thanks for stopping by with a comment. Deep breathing helps your body slow down and relax. It is a way to get a good night’s sleep. If children can learn to unwind when they are small, it will help them as adults as well. I found the thought of “smiling inwardly” to be useful. You can’t be very up-tight when you are smiling.


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